His first marriage in 1937 was to Jocelyn, the 20 year-old artist daughter of A P Herbert MP. The above photograph from The Australasian newspaper Melbourne 4 Dec 1937 shows her arriving with her mother at Hammersmith Registry Office. Her father is on the right. Jocelyn Herbert became a very successful stage designer. The marriage brought Anthony Lousada into a lively Chiswick circle of writers and artists and produced four children, one of whom Sandra Lousada #348 became a notable photographer and whose 'Public Faces Private Places' (ref 194) contains many portraits of her siblings and mother; and one of her father. The marriage was dissolved in 1960.

On the right is Patricia Capalbo nee McBride (later Lousada) and to her right is her fellow ballerina Tanaquil Le Clercq, both pioneer members of Balanchine's New York City Ballet Company. The undated photo was found on https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/28/obituaries/patricia-mcbride-lousada-dead.html. She married Anthony Lousada in 1961 when she was 31. This marriage produced two children, one of whom was Sebastian, whose daughter Lily made early contact with us. During her marriage Patricia became a noted author of cookery books and the marriage ended when Sir Anthony died in 1994. An obituary of Patricia may be found here; and it should be noted that there was another Patricia McBride in the same ballet company, and that she was some 10 years younger than the above Patricia McBride.